Oh, dear me. You are right, RD. I am a completely bad person because I engage in one act of "bigotry." Very well, then I suppose I should go cast myself in the river and die. The world would be one bigot less, then, wouldn't it?
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Of course I'm joking; I'm not so stupid as to leave the world in the hands of you humorless bastards.
I'm not sure why you think I'm humorless. It's true that I don't find casual bigotry entertaining, but if you can only get chuckles by debasing "the other", then I think that leaves you with the more stunted sense of humor. I find it odd that you put the word bigotry in scare quotes. How would you describe demonizing a group of people for things that have nothing to do with them? Because that's what you're doing, whether you want to admit it or not.
I've never said you should cast yourself in a river, or in any way kill yourself. I'd much rather you be a better person than a corpse.
If you don't like my manner of speaking, and if you don't like my way of thinking, then that's your prerogative. I don't like that you don't like me, but I suppose it cannot be helped. Scold me all you want, call me names and use ad hominem if it makes you feel better. But DON'T YOU FUCKING DARE tell me what I can and cannot say!
I never once asserted that you being a bigot was the reason that your casual degradation of homosexuals was improper, nor do I think that I have called you a bigot unfairly. And I certainly did not tell you what you can or cannot say. You have every right to let the world know your opinion on any topic you want. This does not mean, however, that people are bound to not judge you based on your words and deeds. I have called you a bigot because you engage in bigotry. Shall I call you illiterate, or did you simply chose not to read my post?
Now, as for how I deserve to live in America...I don't. I don't deserve it anymore than my Czech friend deserves to be excluded from living in it. Same as you, J, FW or any other American Compendiumite or any American in general, there is nothing that makes me different from anyone who wasn't born here.
The difference is, while you weep and scream and tear through the world, I'll laugh and play and occasionally allow myself a slip of the tongue. I reel in my language if someone takes particular offense to it, but not once have I ever tried to make anyone feel bad over how they spoke, and I was hoping that you people, the self-proclaimed paramount of tolerance, would show the same consideration. For all I care, you can take your self-appointed self-righteous attitude and shove it up your ass. I have no use for it.
You are entirely able to speak your mind here. Your speech is tolerated. It is not censored, it is not removed, but it is certainly not endorsed. While I have never described myself as a paramount of tolerance, tolerance is exactly what I am showing your speech. I have never disallowed you to say anything, here or elsewhere.
It's odd that you use this to get on your moral high horse. You've never tried to make anyone feel bad over how they speak. Well good for you. You just happily contribute to making people feel bad about the category of people they are attracted to. I'm not sure why you think that makes you superior. There is clearly some part of you that recognizes that this casual bigotry is not a good thing, or else you wouldn't reel it in when called on it. What I am forced to conclude is that you knowingly use your speech to make people feel bad about things that they cannot control, and then you get offended when you are made to feel bad about your entirely voluntary actions. I fail to see the equivalence here.
Your attitude is extremely childish. You have this odd notion that anyone who actually cares about making this world a better place is a complete stiff, someone without humor or joy. This is not the case. I'm filled with joy and awe at the beauty and splendor the world has to offer, and that is why it enrages me when such joy is unjustly denied to my fellow human beings. Neither your selfishness nor your carelessness are virtues and I strongly doubt that you've got the chops to make an ethical defense of your hedonism. Prove me wrong here; I'd love to hear it.
On the matter of health care, I took offense to your labeling of American health care as a "third world" system. Have you been to a third world country, RD? I haven't, but I belong to a church that has made several mission trips to them in the past. These are places where ritual healings that would make Christian Scientists blush are the norm and where they have about as much medical expertise as a plague doctor of Medieval times.
To my knowledge, the United States is the only 1st world country that does not provide health care for its citizens. This is what I mean when I say that the US has a 3rd world health care system. If I have erred in this description, this is where the error lies.
We have the same problem, you and I, and the same goal in mind. We have different methods to reach that goal, but I don't hate you for that. What I dislike is your blatant distortion of the problem. I figured you either did this out of ignorance, or you did it willfully. I chose the former because I figured it was a general misunderstanding.
Do we have the same goals? I'm not convinced. On topics relevant to this post, I want an end to homophobia, and a modern health care system in the wealthiest nation in the world. You clearly don't want an end to homophobia, and you have not indicated whether or not you want a modern health care system in the US. I want this world to be better than it is. I'm not sure that you do:
The difference is, while you weep and scream and tear through the world, I'll laugh and play and occasionally allow myself a slip of the tongue.
This is the statement of a carefree hedonist. This is not an indication that you have any true desire to make the world a better place. I see a problem, and if it is beyond my power to fix it, then the least I do is try to draw attention to it. You don't seem concerned at all with fixing problems. Indeed, when presented with a problem (for example, homophobia) you become defensive, and perform all sorts of contortions to somehow assert that the problem doesn't exist, and those pointing it out are the ones with some larger problem.
Either way, to make a statement like that, you DO lack perspective.
We put a man on the moon. Don't tell me we can't do here on Earth what those who have never left this rock have been doing for 60 years.