Well, I don't think anybody here said anything about hating RD. My opinion is the same as V_Translanka, actually I like RD's main scenario more than CC. But that doesn't change the fact that CT/CC is the main continuity in the series. There are too much things in RD that directly contradict CT and/or CC, whereas CC doesn't contradict anything. It's like the Dragon Ball Z OAV, some of them are cool, but all of them contradict the main storyline (you can't put them anywhere because some characters who normally never meet in the series or should be busy somewhere else are together in the OAV).
And the End of Time isn't the source of time. Well maybe of time, but not of the whole reality (or whatever concept could be put above time). Schala states in CC that Zurvan, the Sea of Dreams, is the place from where everything has came and will return to. If the End of Time is eternity, I guess Zurvan would have to be more than eternity...